EID MUBARAK
1st Syawal is here...
I just wanna wish all my Muslim readers a very Selamat Hari Raya~!
Count your blessings and be thankful for what you have this year. Things may just take a change for the worse. No matter how bad things may go, there are people worse off than you.
nakalboi. Another day is done;
- 7:50 pm
You Should...
You should take a chance.
Who knows, it can make you stronger and happier. It may even allow you to experience something new.
Take a chance and some out of your shell. Sniff the fresh air, and lie down flat in the rolling fields. Run, climb, hide. Do that.
Oh please don't waste your time with those gadgets likes PSPs and waht not. That's indoor entertainment. It doesn't replace physical activity, even though you maybe driving around in an ultracool sports car, or battling dragons in medieval times. It just makes you fat.
Not taking chances makes you fat.
You should have an ambition.
I remember the time when I was three, and I wanted to be a race car driver. When I was 6, I wanted to be a doctor (and still drive 2 sports cars) That ambition and hope drove me in primary school, and I must say, I did quite well for the PSLE (261..) Then I started to lose it. It was a slow downward spiral. Went through JC without one. Went thru NS without realising if I had one or not.
Then I had an awakening when I realised that I can't stagnate my ambitions if I wanted to continue to do well, and progress in life. Everyone wants to be rich and successful. But having an ambition gives you the goal, and the driving edge. It gives you a trail on the 'how' you can be rich and successful, and also answers the question of how rich and how successful you wanna be.
Having no ambition, chances are you will fail and fail miserably.
You should know your limits.
Let's face it, if you can't do it, you can't do it. Don't bother trying too hard. It makes you look pathetic. You can be persistant, cos it's part of who you are. But you can't be stubborn. Cos people hate that.
You should know what looks good on you.
How many times, when we walk down the street, have we actually seen extremely beautiful people but they look hideous in their clothes? Or how about those people whom you know you wouldn't date, but because of how well she puts her clothes together, you might just give her a chance. (And by nice here, I'm not refering to plunging necklines and offensively 'deep' cleavages)
So here, take a chance with clothes and colours, there might just be another colour besides black that can make you look good.
You should start taking your own advise..
That's right. Take your own advise; on relationships, family, on school, on decisions. But what we need is sometimes a reassurance that we're doing the right thing. It's nornal. I used to get extremely frustrated when people don't even consider my advise. I still do get frustrated nowadays. I'm learning to accept that. And sometimes, I do give crap advise.
Here's a few..
"If you wanna break up with the GF, go ahead. But pass me her number once you're done."
"If you wanna break up with the BF, go ahead. Never contact him anymore."
"If you don't know where to go, or what to do with your life, you should read my blog."
But above everything else, you should be thankful.
Be thankful for what you have, cos there are others who may not have it.
Be thankful to your friends, family and other loved ones.
Be thankful for everything that has happened to you, as it has helped you shape your memories and experiences, and no one has the exact same memory and experience as you do.
I'm thankful for everything. The beautiful ladies in my life then and now, the wonderful experience I've had along the way, those little flashbacks which make me feel emotional when I think about it.
nakalboi. Another day is done;
- 9:46 am
Because...
Relationships are complicated.
One moment you're inseparable, and another, you wish that you're halfway around the world.
That's the volatility of human relationships. When you spend so much time together, sometimes all you wish for is some time apart. And When you're apart, you start wishing that you weren't in the first place.
Which then leads to the fickleness of the human mind, it's indecisiveness, muddled by confusion and complacency.
Don't get what I mean? Its ok. Google it.
The mind, and its ability to think, rationalise, consider, decide, reflect, remember, is God's greatest gift to mankind. Unfortunately, this is also Man's greatest weakness. The mind is too powerful for some people. Thinking too much, and too far. Deciphering too much of the literal, trying to comprehend the unsaid. This leads to misunderstandings & confusion which goes back to the first line of this entry that human relationships are complicated.
Don't get me?
Don't think too much.
Just read for our enjoyment. And try to comprehend. If you can't, think about it, and smile.
Cos that's just another ramble, among rambles.
nakalboi. Another day is done;
- 2:04 pm
The World Needs to Know...
ADI LOVES RAIHAN
That's all.
nakalboi. Another day is done;
- 12:56 am
Shit Work. Die.
Girls are NOT stupid.
This was what someone in my group tried to pass off as work. Look closely at the title of the slide, and the points in it.Fine. Cut them some slack. The specific question is, "Think about what are the factors which we consider when we want to chose between Harvest and Global (recording companies)?"
Wouldn't what you get just want to make you vomit blood? 2 WHOLE freaking hours, and I got ONE slide of a lifted paragraph from some website of questionable source...
Urgh.
I can't stand retards. Simply can't.
No wonder you're stupid.
Stupid Farkers.
nakalboi. Another day is done;
- 2:34 pm
To Love is to give...
To love is to give, and expect nothing in return.
Whatever you get, is a bonus.
It hurts to give without getting anything in return, but it's only human.
nakalboi. Another day is done;
- 11:25 pm
Dangerous Relationships
dan·ger·ous [dáynjərəss]
adjective
involving risk: involving risk or difficulty
re·la·tion·ship [ri láysh’n shìp]
(plural re·la·tion·ships)
noun
behavior or feelings toward somebody else: the connection between two or more people or groups and their involvement with each other, especially as regards how they behave and feel toward each other and communicate or cooperate
How would you define it?
It's hard to explain. But I'm love to be in one.
Have you ever been in a situation, when you like someone, but the problem is both of you are attached, yet do have this kinda scandalous friendship (not f***friend, mind you...), whereby you would prefer that no one knows about it?
How about a situation where you like someone, and she likes you back, but it's kinda wrong in some way, because of age, race, religion, mutual friends, or even sexuality?
I must say, that's what I am in right now. Dangerous. Risky. I don't mind if some people know about it, but I don't quite want everyone to know about it either. Risks are too huge. Friendships are at risk. The social stigma is there too...
I'm usually quite clear with my decisions. They don't always conform to social norms, nor are they always acceptable, but from where I see it, my decisions are always right and justifiable. Some see it as a lackadaisical approach, or perhaps even reckless and selfish, but I guess that's what makes me a little bit more special than others... *LOL*
I'm beginning to think that I thrive being in these situations, taking uncalculated risks into uncharted territory. With life and love, I guess that's where I dare to take risks. But with work, and livelihood of others, I prefer to take the path well trodden.
This is not the first time, and I doubt it'll be the last. But I hope it'll stop soon, especially if I decide that I want to settle down.
Baby, let's just keep it down for a while, ya... The whole world doesn't need to know what we've got going on. Sssshhhh.......
nakalboi. Another day is done;
- 1:09 am
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Clubbing this weekend? Keep me informed. I might just join you!
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Dear God, Give me the answers I seek. Give me the strength to continue loving and caring, in this world full of hatred, and discontentment.
Dear God, do give me the strength, to go another day, with all the challenges I face.
Dear God, give me the ability to be the best that I can be, for my family and friends.
Dear God, please ensure her safety, and the safety of those she loves, and those who love her.
Dear God, don't take away this gift of patience, and faith which you have bestowed upon me, as it helps me keeps my sanity in times like this. Don't take away the love that I have for the people I care for.
Dear God, beyond everything I ask for help to make sure that the people I care for remain as happy as can be, even though you need to shroud me in misery.
Choosing to Love you,
Is the best decision I've made, so far.
Wanting you to be happy,
Is my only consideration now.
Leaving you all alone,
Was never an option.
To be thinking about you always,
Is not easy, especially in tough times.
Being CHOPE
Is incomplete without the REAL chickadee.
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